We have the wonderful opportunity and blessing to bring a parent into our home due to memory needs. This decision was and is a prayerful one that did not come as easily for me as it did my husband (whose Mother is living with us). I want to share some quick thoughts if ever you find yourself with this opportunity and insights as we progress.
First and foremost my heart and thinking had to be changed; from immediate to eternal.
Our first extended visit when we were considering this, my frustration was getting the best of me. I remember saying to God (while standing in my kitchen) this is NOT what I had in mind just one year after my retirement! The next thing I experienced was the feeling you would have when a bucket of cold water is poured over your head. And these words were spoken to my heart with a vision of our family member in heaven - arms extended to me - she was returned to her 'full self', beautiful in every way - "Cindy, I know what you did for me". I fell on my knees sobbing and saying aloud 'ok Lord I get it -- ok! I am sorry.'
I cannot tell you how much peace I have had since then and how many people have spoken into my life about the blessings of caring for elderly family members - further confirmation.
I hope you will check back as I will be sharing more about this adventure in life.
Blessings friends. Oh, and sorry for being away for a while.
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